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14 Quotes About Love and Marriage

14 Quotes About Love and Marriage

14 Quotes About Love and MarriageIn a day and age during which couples often hear a million reasons why they shouldn’t stay together, it’s nice to hear some reasons from time to time as to why they should. Sure, marriage isn’t always easy, but to find someone who you can travel on your journey through life with is a gift. To have someone who will stand by your side as you weather life’s storms is a blessing. And to experience true love is a reason to feel joyful (and eat chocolate). This month, as we celebrate love, why not pay tribute to a union that, when entered into, is often done so with so much of it. As an ode to February 14th here are 14 quotes about marriage. Happy Valentine’s Day to those who still say “I do” every single day.





Source : http://www.babble.com/mom/14-quotes-about-love-and-marriage/#a-true-friend
2013, The Year of the Snake!: Should Expecting Parents Be Worried?

2013, The Year of the Snake!: Should Expecting Parents Be Worried?

The Year of the Snake.The Year of the Snake.
This Sunday marks the end of the Year of the Dragon on the Chinese calendar, which can only mean one thing: ladies and gentlemen, say hello to the Year of the Snake!
Now, that might not mean a whole lot to some of us here in the western part of the planet. But make no mistake about it, for billions of other Earthlings, especially for folks planning to be parents, there is quite a bit of thinking going on in regards to the serpent year.
See, in the tradition of the Chinese New Year, it is believed that people born under each of the twelve different individual animal signs (with subspecies chosen each year — this year it’s Water Snake) will ultimately carry certain traits that define the animal.
And so naturally, when you’re dealing with this kind of natural variety: Rat, Cow, Tiger, Rabbit, Dragon, Snake, Horse, Sheep, Monkey, Chicken, Dog, Pig … you’re going to have some that are perennial favorites and some that are not so much.
An article in the New Strait Times explains that last year, being born under the sign of the Dragon was extremely coveted by legions of planning parents-to-be. In fact, it was so important to be born under that sign which is said to bring more luck and success other signs, that “the rush for a Dragon baby was so real that hospitals and maternity wards were reportedly full, even in Malaysia.”
But what about the poor old Snake?
Isn’t he as good, or even almost as good as the Dragon is?
Will babies born in this new Chinese year have a tougher time of things? After all, as an ABC.com story points out, the last two Year of the Snakes brought about some pretty bad events; 1989′s Tiananmen Square massacre in Beijing and 2001′s 9/11 tragedy in New York.
But does that really mean much?
Not according to New Strait Times, which claims that  “the Snake’s inherent element is fire, thus Snake children tend to be polite, active, energetic, humble, respectful, intuitive, smart and patient. They can also be demanding and cunning.”
USA Today article out today claims, “People born in the year of the snake are believed to be good at business.”
And when ABC.com talked to Taiwanese astrologer Tsai Shang-chi, he told them he believes that even though “snakes were often associated with monsters…(and) some political turbulence can be expected,” he also thinks babies born under the sign of the Snake will  be “self-motivated and agile.”
Only time will tell.
8 Ways to Add Spark (and Sex!) to Your Marriage After Kids

8 Ways to Add Spark (and Sex!) to Your Marriage After Kids

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February is the month for romance and the ideal excuse to turn the spotlight on your marriage. Once you implement these 8 steps, your intimacy will be the envy of the playground!
1. Synchronize Your Schedules  
Sure it’s tempting to send email late into the night while he falls asleep in front of the TV, but if this sounds familiar, you need to change this pattern. If you crawl into bed at the same time as your spouse each night, sex is an option. If you don’t, it is completely off the table. Your goal is warm bodies cuddling every night.
2. Make Your Husband Your Gay Best Friend
In the best marriages, spouses are best friends. Your husband should have the most intel on your life. Do you have good news? Tell him first. Bad news? Tell him first. Leaning on your husband leads to greater connection and intimacy.
3. Do Bite-sized Check Ins
Over a glass of wine or a cup of tea, make time to have a 20 minute check in each day – morning or night. Keep it to 20 minutes or your partner is less likely to want to do it tomorrow. The daily check-in results in intimacy because it literally holds your life together and insures you are on the same path.
4. Have a Weekly Date Night
Set up a weekly sitter so that date night becomes as much a part of your schedule as work or school. And remember that date night is not for problem solving. If you are doing your bite-size dailies, there is no need to use date nights for anything but fun. Trade off the planning responsibilities and enjoy.
5. Create Your Dreamables
Remember when you first met and the two of you giddily talked about your vision for the future? Just as a growing company periodically rethinks their plan, at least once a year you want to dream with your partner.  Look 3-5 years ahead, look 10 years ahead. Think about careers, kids, travel, health, and money. Dreaming together is a great reminder that you are a team. Dream achievable – set a vision that you can aim for and get to.
6. Settle on a Sex Quota
Every couple is different and you need to do what works for both of you. Talk to your spouse about how much you each want to be having sex, meet in the middle and aim to achieve it! Getting in touch with each other’s desires will help you meet one another’s needs.
7. Fly Solo
The two of you need to do a couple’s trip without kids at least once a year. Even two days at a local hotel will rejuvenate your marriage. And go guilt-free because taking some time to intensely connect will benefit the whole family upon your return. It is hard to be an unhappy kid with two happy parents.
8. Be United
As parents you are faced with hundreds of decisions on a weekly basis and if you don’t discuss issues as they arise, they can create wedges between you. The more you communicate about your philosophies and styles when the kids are not listening, the better a team you will be when they are. Getting on the same page will erase a lot of the natural tension that comes with parenting. Support one another and your marriage will thrive.
Find inspiration in these happily married parents who recently enjoyed date nights:

[ Source: Http://http://www.babble.com/babble-voices/working-moms-lifestyle-samantha-ettus/2013/02/08/8-ways-to-add-spark-and-sex-to-your-marriage-after-kids ]