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14 Quotes About Love and Marriage
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2013, The Year of the Snake!: Should Expecting Parents Be Worried?
This Sunday marks the end of the Year of the Dragon on the Chinese
calendar, which can only mean one thing: ladies and gentlemen, say hello
to the Year of the Snake!
Now, that might not mean a whole lot to some of us here in the
western part of the planet. But make no mistake about it, for billions
of other Earthlings, especially for folks planning to be parents, there
is quite a bit of thinking going on in regards to the serpent year.
See, in the tradition of the Chinese New Year, it is believed that
people born under each of the twelve different individual animal signs
(with subspecies chosen each year — this year it’s Water Snake) will
ultimately carry certain traits that define the animal.
And so naturally, when you’re dealing with this kind of natural
variety: Rat, Cow, Tiger, Rabbit, Dragon, Snake, Horse, Sheep, Monkey,
Chicken, Dog, Pig … you’re going to have some that are perennial
favorites and some that are not so much.
An article in the New Strait Times explains
that last year, being born under the sign of the Dragon was extremely
coveted by legions of planning parents-to-be. In fact, it was so
important to be born under that sign which is said to bring
more luck and success other signs, that “the rush for a Dragon baby was
so real that hospitals and maternity wards were reportedly full, even in
Malaysia.”
But what about the poor old Snake?
Isn’t he as good, or even almost as good as the Dragon is?
Will babies born in this new Chinese year have a tougher time of things? After all, as an ABC.com story
points out, the last two Year of the Snakes brought about some pretty
bad events; 1989′s Tiananmen Square massacre in Beijing and 2001′s 9/11
tragedy in New York.
But does that really mean much?
Not according to New Strait Times, which claims that “the
Snake’s inherent element is fire, thus Snake children tend to be polite,
active, energetic, humble, respectful, intuitive, smart and patient.
They can also be demanding and cunning.”
A USA Today article out today claims, “People born in the year of the snake are believed to be good at business.”
And when ABC.com talked to Taiwanese astrologer Tsai Shang-chi, he
told them he believes that even though “snakes were often associated
with monsters…(and) some political turbulence can be expected,” he also
thinks babies born under the sign of the Snake will be “self-motivated
and agile.”
Only time will tell.
Image: flickr.com/photos/ballena
8 Ways to Add Spark (and Sex!) to Your Marriage After Kids
February is the month for romance and the ideal excuse to turn the
spotlight on your marriage. Once you implement these 8 steps, your
intimacy will be the envy of the playground!
1. Synchronize Your Schedules
Sure it’s tempting to send email late into the night while he falls asleep in front of the TV, but if this sounds familiar, you need to change this pattern. If you crawl into bed at the same time as your spouse each night, sex is an option. If you don’t, it is completely off the table. Your goal is warm bodies cuddling every night.
2. Make Your Husband Your Gay Best Friend
Sure it’s tempting to send email late into the night while he falls asleep in front of the TV, but if this sounds familiar, you need to change this pattern. If you crawl into bed at the same time as your spouse each night, sex is an option. If you don’t, it is completely off the table. Your goal is warm bodies cuddling every night.
2. Make Your Husband Your Gay Best Friend
In the best marriages, spouses are best friends. Your husband should
have the most intel on your life. Do you have good news? Tell him first.
Bad news? Tell him first. Leaning on your husband leads to greater
connection and intimacy.
3. Do Bite-sized Check Ins
Over a glass of wine or a cup of tea, make time to have a 20 minute
check in each day – morning or night. Keep it to 20 minutes or your
partner is less likely to want to do it tomorrow. The daily check-in
results in intimacy because it literally holds your life together and
insures you are on the same path.
4. Have a Weekly Date Night
Set up a weekly sitter so that date night becomes as much a part of
your schedule as work or school. And remember that date night is not for
problem solving. If you are doing your bite-size dailies, there is no
need to use date nights for anything but fun. Trade off the planning
responsibilities and enjoy.
5. Create Your Dreamables
Remember when you first met and the two of you giddily talked about
your vision for the future? Just as a growing company periodically
rethinks their plan, at least once a year you want to dream with your
partner. Look 3-5 years ahead, look 10 years ahead. Think about
careers, kids, travel, health, and money. Dreaming together is a great
reminder that you are a team. Dream achievable – set a vision that you
can aim for and get to.
6. Settle on a Sex Quota
Every couple is different and you need to do what works for both of
you. Talk to your spouse about how much you each want to be having sex,
meet in the middle and aim to achieve it! Getting in touch with each
other’s desires will help you meet one another’s needs.
7. Fly Solo
The two of you need to do a couple’s trip without kids at least once a
year. Even two days at a local hotel will rejuvenate your marriage. And
go guilt-free because taking some time to intensely connect will
benefit the whole family upon your return. It is hard to be an unhappy
kid with two happy parents.
8. Be United
As parents you are faced with hundreds of decisions on a weekly basis
and if you don’t discuss issues as they arise, they can create wedges
between you. The more you communicate about your philosophies and styles
when the kids are not listening, the better a team you will be when
they are. Getting on the same page will erase a lot of the natural
tension that comes with parenting. Support one another and your marriage
will thrive.
Find inspiration in these happily married parents who recently enjoyed date nights:
[ Source: Http://http://www.babble.com/babble-voices/working-moms-lifestyle-samantha-ettus/2013/02/08/8-ways-to-add-spark-and-sex-to-your-marriage-after-kids ]
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